TRAPPED VS. CHALLENGED

Nothing rests; everything moves; everything vibrates.

—The Kybalion

It IS within each and every one of you to master your own personal vibration. It is a conscious choice to re-program your thought and speech patterns. It all starts with the intention to create positive change in your life.

The words you choose to express your particular situation are the outward representation of the level of vibration you are currently operating at. When you choose words such as “I am trapped. . .” “I hate my life. . . “ “My family has deserted me . . .” These words reflect a vibration that is slow and dense, a vibration that is not in alignment with energies that are used in creating forward movement in your life. You may feel trapped, deserted, and even resentful for the current condition of your life, but when you start to change the way you speak about these situations you begin to take back your personal power. By taking responsibility for the vibrational output of the words you use and the thoughts behind them, you are making the first step in creating the life you truly desire.

So you are asking, “How do I change the words I use if the feelings haven’t changed?” Ok here is an example. A person is in an abusive relationship and wants to get out of that situation, but when they speak about their position in the relationship they say things like, “I am trapped and I have no way out.” “I can’t leave . . . I have nowhere to go.”

These words lend themselves to victim energy, which is a very low vibrating energy and allows those who align themselves with it, to manifest more of the same. To begin to create forward movement out of any situation you need to begin to think about it from a place of a higher vibrational frequency. This is the first step to creating positive change in your life. When you say, “I am trapped and I have no way out.” You are! If you change your mindset and the words you use, to reflect the desire for change, you might say, “This is a challenge that I will overcome.” You will!

This takes practice and diligence to re-pattern your thoughts and choice of words. It is possible to take back control of the energy that you are putting into your words. It starts with changing your perspective on how you think and how you express your thoughts and feelings.

There is More to This Than a Goodbye

There is more to this than just a goodbye.

Each tear that has been shed has fallen into the sea of immeasurable change.

Each step that was taken was one more step away from fear, and one more step toward who I AM.

When you look into my eyes you will not see who you knew then, but the woman who I have become.

Each gift that has come at a price was well worth the cost.

Each lesson learned through pain and heartache is now recognized to be truly valued.

The moment I looked into the mirror and I saw someone I didn’t know, I knew it was time for change.

Each time I blamed myself; I took on your responsibility and became the victim.

Each time I cried out for help, I forgot to look within first.

I am no longer searching for what is without, I know with all certainty that all I need is within.

There is more to this than a goodbye, there is ultimate appreciation for all that I have.

2011 ~ A New Start

Welcome to 2011. This year looks to have already started with such an incredible energy. The first day of this year had a date which will not be seen for another one hundred years. 01/ 01/ 11 are perfect numbers for a clean start.

With the energy the way it is here on Earth now, if you are even remotely aware, you cannot help but feel the new energy. There is a sense of great expectation and true faith that the Universe is providing for all. This year promises to bring increased health and well being, an abundance of Love, Light, responsibility and joy.

I am an Intuitive who specializes in helping people to strengthen the connection to their soul choices so they may live the life that they truly desire. Over the following months it will be my goal to assist those who are ready to move forward through this blog and through personal consultations. If you are ready to commit to personal growth, wish to gain focus, clarity of purpose, and personal empowerment, and feel that my work will benefit you in your journey then contact me either through Facebook, email constance.fairleightfoundation@gmail.com

or by mobile phone at +61431 289 503. I am available by phone, internet, and or in-person consultations.

I look forward to serving you and your highest good.

Many Blessings and much Love,

Constance Fairleight

The Ego, The Mind, and Manifestation

Some say the ego is the thing that drives us that the ego is what protects us, and the ego makes us stronger. There are theories that the mind controls the ego, that the mind is the stronger of the two, and that the mind in all of its infinite wisdom, determines what the ego is allowed to do.

If you are reading this, your ego has probably served you well so far. You have completed a certain level of education that allows you to read, write, and communicate with the rest of the human beings on this amazing planet, because your ego would not allow you to fail at school. That is one way the ego does serve us very well. In this example, the ego has not only driven you to a level of success in your education, it has protected you from what some may consider being an embarrassing situation, illiteracy. So now, because you can read, write, and communicate you feel strong enough to go out into the world and pursue that position that you have been looking at. You are now a productive part of society, BUT…what the ego forgot to tell you is that you could have gone so much further, that now that you have all of these wonderful skills, you could become an author, or a artist, a teacher, or a Quantum Physics professor, it forgot to ask you what your Soul purpose is; and that is because it is very happy with the status quo. The ego is the voice in your head that says, “Well sure you’d love that million dollar estate in Bronte, but look at what you already have. You have a roof over your head, 2.3 children, a decent car…you should be grateful for what you have.” The ego does serve us to a certain extent, but it is also what holds us back. It is what creates boredom and suggests to us that we “settle” for what we have. It is definitely NOT a tool in manifesting your Soul urge.

The mind is an extremely important tool that we have been given. According to Dr. Tad James, we have two minds, the conscious and the unconscious minds. The unconscious mind is what runs your body; it is what makes your heart beat, it moves you lungs so you can breathe, causes your eyes to blink, and controls the lymphatic system of your body. It is also the centre for everything that you have ever learned. The unconscious mind is where we store all of our memories. Yes, learning must go through our conscious mind, but it is stored in our unconscious mind. The conscious mind is the part of us that shows the world who we are. It is what enables us to communicate with that person who is standing in front of us, and it is the part of the mind that the ego wants rapport with. The ego wants to control the conscious mind so that it can manipulate us into believing that it knows best and it will deceive us by trying to create a relationship with our consciousness. This is where the unconscious mind is a life saver. It wants rapport with the conscious mind, it wants to assist us with change, it knows our purpose, and it is intrinsically connected to our Soul.

In the process of manifestation, or what I refer to as “Intention + Inspired Action”, the ego is an obstacle, the mind an assistant, and the Soul the source of inspiration. We can choose to listen to the voice of the ego and remain in a life that we are content with, or we can choose to explore our Soul purpose and live a life of bliss.

Constance Fairleight is the author of “Creating the Life You Truly Desire”. This is a program for those who want to make positive change in their lives and who are willing to take the necessary action steps to achieve their goals. Constance can be reached at +61431 289 503 or you can email her at constance@fairleightfoundation.org for more information about the course, public speaking engagements, and personal consultations.

Connection and the Illusion of Lack Thereof

There are times in all of your lives when you have asked, “Where is God?” or if you have a more Universal philosophy, “Am I alone in this Universe?” Everyone in the course of their spiritual and emotional growth has experienced a sense of disconnectedness from Source. Source being your higher power, the One who created you, God, Universe, Allah, there are many names given to this energy. You ask these questions in times where you are deeply challenged, when your strength, courage, determination and faith are being tested. It is ironic that your doubt, or sense of disconnection becomes most prevalent in your MIND when it is in those times when you are Loved, Supported and Provided for the most. The illusion of lack in your connection to your higher power through your higher self, is based on the fear of inevitable change, and it is the MIND that holds this fear, not your Soul. Your Soul knows that you are never separate, that you are one with the entire cosmos. YOU are just as much a part of the CREATOR as the CREATOR is part of YOU.

So, how does this illusion ever serve you? On one level, the recognition of the feeling within your body of how the supposed disconnect feels is a tool that you are given as a pattern interrupt. This sensation creates a shift in your thought patterns. It creates a space for reflection on your life in its present form. It is like an energetic “STOP” sign. Here you have the chance to stop the merry go round of your life and see what this feeling of doubt is truly representing. On another level, it is another chance to strengthen the connection between your human self and your Soul. Yes, the perceived disconnection IS an illusion, but it is one that appears very real on Earth. These moments of self doubt, doubt in the presence of something greater than you in your human form, feelings of depression and anxiety, are all indicators that your heart is aching to rebuild that connection. Ultimately, the reconnection is possible instantaneously. You only need to open your heart to your Soul and Universe will do the rest.

It is your birthright as a Child of God, a creation of the Universe, to be held in the palm of the hand of the One who created you, and there you are Loved, Protected, and Provided for unconditionally.

So know that you are NEVER alone, you are Loved beyond words, and that everything is in perfect and Divine order.

Shine On Brilliant Stars

A Prayer of Appreciation and Forgiveness

A Prayer of Appreciation and Forgiveness

I appreciate the moments when I can look at a situation, and with blessed assistance rectify any misguided interactions that have occurred.

It is not with malice or judgment that these corrections are made. It is with faith in the Creator, and the strength of my conviction, that I choose Love.

I give thanks and appreciation to my Creator, and the Company of Heaven for all of the blessings they bestow on myself and my Loved ones.

What lies beyond the incessant self betrayal? Is it the awakening of the Heart? Is it the manifestation of the life you truly desire?

Why do you as Children of God self-limit yourselves? YOU have been created to be the creators. YOU have been given the gift of choice, free will. Since it is yours to choose the life you lead why then do you make such harsh choices as human beings, when your Soul choices are intensely miraculous.

It is only when your earthly choices do not match the vibration of your Soul choices that your lives are complicated and you “suffer”.

So then I beg this question of you. Is the road to the beautiful life your heart desires an uphill climb, a swim upstream? Why do you choose this? It is not the aim of the Company of Heaven to make you work harder for what you want. It is only in your lack of faith in yourselves and in the wonder of the Universe that you cause this struggle. We say be gentle with yourselves. Love yourselves like no other, as you are Loved from above and beyond. Create, relax, enjoy, and above all things follow your heart.

Shine On Brilliant Stars