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Having not written in a while I have deeply contemplated what to cover in this blog. There have been so many who have been struggling with self-worth and victim energy for so long that it has become a comfortable pattern for them to slip into whenever life just seems a little bit too hard. The more energy we give to that behaviour, the easier it is to access.
How does it serve someone to become the victim? How does it serve someone to continue to deny the magnificence within them? What need or needs do these patterns fulfill? Is life easier when everything happens “to” you, when everything is out of your control? How does this further the soul evolution of someone who engages in these behaviours?
Simple answer to those questions is, that it doesn’t serve them in their highest good, but it does “relieve” them of their personal responsibility for the condition of their lives and the frequency of their vibration. . . for a while anyway. When someone gives up their power and falls into the ego’s trap of self-degradation and self-victimization the condition of their life can become unbearable and this is when anxiety and depression can set in. BUT, there was a choice. They chose to continue this pattern. Why??? Because these patterns meet one or more of their needs. For some people being the “victim” gives them significance and of course this is in a negative or shadow position. For others, it brings certainty to their lives through the position that they will find comfort from others, although, only for a while. This also lends itself to love and connection BUT in a VERY dysfunctional presentation.
Pain is inevitable, but suffering is optional. It is a choice. We can choose to honour ourselves and the magnificence within us or we can choose to continue the patterns that have held us captive and dis-empowered. It IS up to you.
